Lifting In Arms Factor:
Well, lifting wife in arms by her beloved husband and then taking her from place to another in home, public place, hotel etc is quite entertaining and making people happy too much. Housewives feel happy once they see in serials husband lifts his spouse just in case she walks bare feet to a temple to fulfill her wish (for husband's prosperity and good health) to a mythical God and hurts her foot.
Women keep expecting the same from their husbands and imagine that could be one day their husbands would lift them inside their arms and bring them from the living area to bedroom or from vegetable market to home just walking and people are wondering and wondering and saying inside "The reason? Is this magic? Oh, she is definitely very lucky." But in reality many husbands in India seem quite reluctant to lift their wives for almost any reason especially after marriage. Exceptions could be there in certain rare cases. When husbands (before marriage) were lovers they need to have lifted their lovers but after they are in a responsibility role they get tired, bored and for some reason don't feel happy to accomplish such things for the most obvious reasons. Women complain too with their husbands when they watch serial actors (characters) lifting actresses inside their arms. Please have a close go through the following conversation between a husband and wife (both middle aged) while watching lifting in arms scene in TV serial:-
The husband is busy taking care of his laptop and simultaneously watching TV serial with his wife to produce her happy. He is least thinking about television serials but sometimes he agrees to fulfill his wife's wish. It is 8pm. Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai Watch Online Husband is sitting beside his wife just to be controlled by her just in case she passes any comment about any character's behavior etc. The wife has gone totally into her favorite serial. A few momemts later, each of an immediate, she starts clapping her hands; the husband is startled, he looks at her with wonder and then moves his eyes to the television screen. He asks his wife with a little curiosity "What happened dear?" The wife is busy in watching the scene. She doesn't hear him. He asks her again "I never saw you so happy. You clapped your hands. I can see that there isn't any cricket match going on only at that time. Can you please tell me what made you clapped suddenly?" Now the wife looks at her husband with some anger inside and says "You won't trust in me if I tell you." She mutes the channel as the commercial break comes and keeps the remote in her hand. Husband "Needless to say, I will believe you."
Wife "Didn't you watch just how Geeta's husband lifted her in his arms and took her to the temple? Actually she hurt her foot. And now it's bleeding. So he lifted. So sweet!!! So romantic!!! But what Personally i think honey; she shouldn't have gone bare feet to the temple. What you think?"
The husband listens to his wife attentively and then asks a question casually "Who's Geeta, dear?"
"Oh, I am talking about this character. You know she's my favorite. You seem to almost forget all my personal favorite actors."
"Oh, how can I forget that? Only this Geeta I didn't know."
"I wish my husband takes me to the temple just like that. She is so lucky to have that strong man. I am feeling so happy you know. Have you ever taken me like that even once? See just how much her husband loves her. That's the best way to express love. You've never expressed your love like Gaeta's husband. You know, he says I love one to her virtually every day. And just look at yourself."
"Ha Ha!! You know Gaeta's husband is not her real husband so they can say 'I love you' to her on an everyday basis." He requires a pause and then continues "That's only a serial my dear. It's a fiction. Those things aren't real. And just look at you and your weight. Just how can I lift you when you are so heavy?"
"I am aware, you'd say that. You never care. That's why I watch this serial. They show how other husbands behave making use of their wives and there's no need to remind me of my weight again and again. I am trying my best. I stopped eating sweets now."
"Yes, I am aware for six days you follow those activities and on the seventh day you relish." He starts laughing loudly.
"You are able to never understand my feelings. You are so rude and cool." She turns off the TV angrily and gets into one other room. The husband quietly sits down on the sofa with his laptop with a laugh on his face.
From the above conversation one can conclude how men and women from middle income families talk and discuss characters of daily soaps, how a conversation starts with and ends with, how fiction can affect people's life indirectly, how women interpret fictional things and conclude about something righteously. Some fictional things can easily raise women's expectations from their husbands.
Lifting in arms factor could be quite much one for family men but if tried hard, will be good for family and an inspiration for children.
If most men than women watch lifting in arms scene on TV attentively and when it persuades them to behave than to view, the happiness in women's life would undoubtedly be doubled. And if women become happy by their husband's expressing love differently, many homes in India would certainly be flooded with great happiness.
Replacement factors:
Indian common masses are extremely emotional. They get attached to serial characters very quickly and get used to start to see the characters in daily soaps that they see on TV for a long time. They get shocked when any major character is replaced such as a main character or supporting actress or actor, mother in law, father in law, brother in law etc who play major roles in daily soaps. Sometimes it happens that even after replacement when viewers watch that serial, they keep remembering the old character in mind and believe that she or he's still acting. This happens with many people. Humans take time for almost any change to simply accept in general when a preexisting character is replaced with a new one. They remember to accept the brand new one. Somehow all these specific things aren't considered by directors and producers who launch them before launching their family dramas on regional TV channels. Replacement of any favorite character upsets the viewers when they get used to that specific character. Read this following assumptive example: A couple gets married with the blessings of elders and starts staying together in a home. Only two of them and 2 years have passed. Husband and wife have quite got used to each others' presence. They shop, eat, drink, fight, share feelings and have a great time together. 1 day each morning, the wife just leaves your house without informing her husband. When the husband returns back from office, he finds another woman who claims to be his wife, tells him to forget the first one and convinces him he won't have chance to meet the first one. What'll happen in this case? Natural reaction such situation will be going into shock, sadness, insecurity, depression and confusion. Any sudden change may be pleasant or unpleasant or both. Though some men want to have such surprises some amount of time in their life but used to factor and emotions comes into play between. This is what exactly happens with viewers when replacement of their favorite actors is performed each of an immediate by a group of TV serials which may be avoided if taken necessary steps for the sake of viewers as a result of whom they have the ability to show whatever content they want to in order to entertain them.
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